Monument Method Institute
Private coaching for real-life problems

Start with the help you actually need.

Whether the pressure is showing up in your relationship, your sex life, or both, you do not have to squeeze your story into the wrong kind of session. Choose the lane that fits—and come alone or together.

Private video coaching · Individual and couples options · Direct, practical, judgment-free

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24 yearsGaylen & Heather together
Both certifiedrelationship coaches
34 booksauthored and co-authored
115+podcast conversations
Choose your path

One front door. Four focused sessions.

Pick the problem you want help with and the people who should be in the room. Every service has its own explanation, preparation, and secure booking page.

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A relationship is something two people build—and protect—on purpose.

Begin before the session

The book that gives the coaching a shared language.

Read The Monument Method before you book, while you wait, or as the next step after your session. It puts the five-pillar practice in your hands so one hour of coaching can keep working at home.

The problem is bigger than performance

Three books. Three perspectives. One path out of shame.

The ED Trilogy addresses the man rebuilding confidence, the partner trying not to personalize the pain, and the couple learning intimacy without making every touch a test.

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ED affects a body, a sense of self, and often an entire relationship.

The ED Trilogy

Keep working between sessions.

Each book meets a different reader at the place where ED is hurting most.

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REBUILT

For men rebuilding erections, confidence, and steadiness without shame.

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ANCHOR

For women navigating ED without blame, panic, or silent relationship damage.

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ALIGN

For couples rebuilding intimacy without turning connection into a performance test.

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Watch: Monument Hearts

The Monument Method does not live only in a coaching room. It lives in the choices people make when love is tested.

Prefer to learn through story?

The nonfiction books, told in a love story.

Enter the Monument Hearts romance universe with Alyssa and Elijah—two people learning that chemistry may begin a love story, but building something lasting requires courage, repair, and a bond worth protecting.

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Not sure where to start?

Meet the people behind the method.

Gaylen and Heather bring professional coaching training, lived experience, and a refusal to use shame as a shortcut.

About Gaylen & Heather