Monument Method Institute
ED coaching for couples

Make ED the problem. Not each other.

When every touch becomes a test, both partners can end up lonely. This 90-minute session helps you understand what has been tried, lower the performance pressure, prepare smarter medical questions, and rebuild a shared approach to intimacy.

Both partners attend · Private intake · Gaylen & Heather coach together

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A whole-system conversation

Body, treatment history, pressure, and the relationship all belong on the table.

The intake captures the medical and treatment context that changes the conversation. The session then helps both partners see the larger pattern without turning one person into a patient and the other into a spectator.

  • Medication, supplement, and PDE5-treatment history
  • What worked, what did not, and what got in the way
  • Possible sexual side effects to raise with the prescriber
  • The pressure cycle around initiation, touch, and performance
  • Language for honest conversations without blame
  • A shared next-step plan for intimacy and professional care
90 private minutes
Both partners attend
Two coaches
Remote video session
Medication safety boundary: We do not tell anyone to start, stop, replace, or change a prescribed medication. We identify useful questions and help you prepare to talk with the licensed clinician who knows the medical history. Coaching is not medical evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment.

Watch: The ED Trilogy

The body is only one part of the story. Shame, fear, and pressure can move into the relationship too.

A book for each side of the experience

Read separately. Reconnect together.

REBUILT speaks to the man. ANCHOR speaks to the woman beside him. ALIGN gives the couple a shared path back to intimacy.

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REBUILT

For men rebuilding confidence without shame.

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ANCHOR

For partners navigating ED without blame or panic.

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ALIGN

For rebuilding intimacy without performance pressure.

Both partners attend

Book ED coaching for couples

Choose your time, then complete the private intake carefully so the session can begin with the whole picture.

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Book — $297